Do what you love. ( a message to all the struggling artists on earth)

I haven’t written something for a few months. Lol. I shared my blog to someone i look up to and  i don’t know what’s his true reaction to my posts. Nevermind. I’ve been struggling lately in this so-called earth. Nope, it’s not poverty like most people struggle about. I am just writing to update this blog regarding my search for a purpose. The physical purpose. Lol. As a Christian, you don’t have to find a purpose. Be good, do good because God is watching you and has a hard copy of everything you’ve done since birth. Lmao. 

I just noticed that ideas come to me when i go to church. It’s not that im not listening to the sermon. I dunno. I sometimes think it’s the devils distraction or an angel guiding me on what to do with my life. I realized that we’re all gonna die, and somehow leave something meaningful to the next generation so they might not go astray. Who knows in the next twenty years there will be a new hype, where gamers battle in real life. I really want to create a game, that’s why i immersed myself in playing mobile legends. I was wondering who made the characters and if they get a commission based on the popularity of a character. Well i never stopped writing on my loser anime-type novel. Loser because it’s not popular. Lol but that’s fine. It makes me happy to read it. I was just thinking about the movie Idiocracy, the only movie i would like to recommend to someone who would ask me what to watch. It’s a bit exaggerated of course.. but it makes sense. Im not very good with words, but i dedicate this post to all the starving artists all over the world. I just hope my message would all be clear. 

You can google the movie synopsis if you haven’t watched it. When my sister and i had a fight because of a neighbor’s wake, she told me i live in a dream world that’s why she would nevwr understand me. And vice versa. I wasn’t mad. It’s true thy i live in my own world. I am physically present because i cannot disappear physically, but mentally i am pondering things. But of course i usually do my observation on people, mostly Clevon’s decendants. If you would read the bible it says that the world will become more cruel as the days come. To connect it with the movie, it could be true. Because those who multiply are stupid. This sounds rude, right. But come to think of it, im not saying everyone on this planet who become parents are stupid. Just take a good look around, my friend. And those who are intelligent as well as overthinkers spend too much time on doing something rather than sex. Or simply overthinks that the world is cruel and i don’t want my future generation to suffer. We haven’t fixed simple real-life problems because of greed. It would cause a debate because labelling the future generation as products of stupidity combats the will of God (god gave us life). But God gave us free will and the free will of stupid people is justified. Lol. 

Anyways i think i lost track of what i wanted to talk about. People are driven by love. Whether atupid or intelligent. Love makes the world bearable. That’s what i think. Sadly i haven’t experienced that kind of love. Because for me it’s ideas. For an artist who is doing something whether it’s a song, a comic book, (RIP Stan Lee), a novel, etc.. it’s kind of difficult for them not selling. No recognition. I think my grammar is busted lol. What im trying to say is, technology could be an edge today because it’s easier to publish your works. And because of technology it’s also easier for hunters to steal them. And what’s worse is you compete with artist wannabes who uses popularity but are stupid down to the core. They win because as i have said before, clevon’s decendants make up the earth, and stupid works are enjoyed by stupid audiences. Lol. A real masterpiece is liked by both intelligent and stupid being. I admit that im rude. Correct me if im wrong. It’s fine with me. But i think artists should not crave for recognition or whatsoever. Just don’t stop doing what you love. The right people would appreciate what you do. And based on my experience i am quite happy with two readers. I just want to make it big not to earn money. (I didnt graduate for nothing) but to share the hidden message (not everyone will get it) to most people. I think im good and hardworking in this set up so i want to see the results.  As a matter of fact this also makes me feel not normal because most people settle down, have kids etc. I made a deal with the universe by the way. But it’s top secret lol. If falling in love would stop me from writing these stories, then i would never love at all. (Two of my friends who used to write stories have stopped. They’re married now) well on the practical side of life, it could be called a sign of maturity. It’s just a phase unobserved and rather irrelevant to the future of the subject that’s why they stopped doing it. If that’s the case, am i still writing because i’m a weirdo, loveless creature? Lmao. It’s my world. My universe. I hated the world that’s why i created my own. Sometimes i wish i could find something good in the norm. I do. But it’s not enough. I admit im still lost in doing tangible things and too bad they’re connected in chasing my dreams. But i will never give up. I’m testing time if my passion fades. And i never stopped thinking about sharing messages. I already have a plan about my projects. But i already expected a few to understand. But of course consistency is hoghly facoured by the universe. Lol. Me, consistent? I dont know. 

And about the guy i was talking about in the past  posts, well let me tell you my favourite quote, a universal quote: 

“I believe that the existence of the classical “path” can be pregnantly formulated as follows: The “path” comes into existence only when we observe it.” -werner heisenberg (uncertainty principle paper) 

Just like what Heisenberg did, he shared something to the world and kudos to him i found this quote. It’s about physics, but let me tell you that everything is connected. So i use it in the love department. I have stopped observing the path that connects me to this person. I ignored everything. Even my feelings so it’s considered as non-existent. I might sound crazy but it’s just the same as those artists who never paid attention to their talents, who never practiced their gifts, who never believed in their abilities. It’s a choice, after all. But to those who were mocked by other people to stop doing what they love, never listen to them. If you are not happy with the world, do something to make it happier. At least for yourself. 

The power of later

One of my greatest dreams is to write a book. A book that will change some people’s perspectives about life. Im not rushing. Because i feel like i dont have enough knowledge and experience yet to write what i want others to convey. I guess this is my purpose. My real purpose: to send a message to random people. Of course i would publish it for free. I learned things for free so why would i get money from it? 

Life sure is mystical even though we kind of predict things through common sense and science. Predicting things is one of my favourite hobbies, that’s why i was inclined to study palmistry, astrology, body language and myers briggs. Lol. My hunger for predictions extended to predicting people, knowing them without their knowing so i know what im gonna do or how im gonna act. Because i despise interacting with people i try to learn by the book. And the inevitable interactions with people — i do it to see if what i’ve studied is true. So all my life, i guess, i’ve been studying and experimenting everything everyday. I have helped a couple of people though. I explain the side that they can’t see or understand. I have failures though. Sometimes i get caught up in logic i forget that this person’s myers-briggs is incapable of deciphering my point. Lol. Sometimes, knowing a lot can be a pain in the ass because you’re the one who’s gonna adjust in certain situations. Most people arent interested in learning and are incapable of change. They want to be accepted for who they are and how they think. It’s sad because problems in general are usually caused by misunderstanding because one isnt willing to change. It’s also sad that people aren’t a fan of logic. I know logic also has limitations. Logic cannot hold the world in general. If you would read the bible, it says that you must do everything in love. There is no logic in love. And i wonder if there’s love in logic. I love logic. I love science. But my love for these things had gotten me into trouble. Minor troubles i guess. 

For example. Pardon if i couldn’t explain what im going to say. Lol i always think in advance. I calculate things in my mind. Not necessarily money. Im bad at counting in numbers. But i like to measure things. Or i measure everything. It’s mental math. Not necessarily in formula. ( even during school days i get right answers in math without using formulas) we were eating our lunch and i was given an extra rice. I cut in in half or rather 60 percent and gave the other 40 to my friend. She insisted that i should get some more because she knows me and i still have plenty of ulam. ( asians eat meals with rice ) i said no i dont have enough, thinking that i have calculated how much rice would amount to my meal. She tried to put her rice on my plate and before the rice fell i held her arm signalling a strong “dont put that on my plate or else you will die” manner. I might have offended her. Im sure i did (she’s a heavy Fe user).  My point is, its hard to explain to someone what goes inside your head. Saying that this half of rice is enough because i have mentally measured the ratio of my meal and i know what i need without presenting a formula might come off as crazy, or weird. Im not intelligent. I just know some things and everyone is capable of measuring things normally. I dont know. Having me to explain things will complicate situations because im not comfortable in talking. Thats why i love writing. Im not a quiet person in contrast. I just hold back because honestly most if the situations i encounter especially the simple things, the small talks, i usually shut up, process things the whole day before i come up with my response. But i dont usually respond. Even with rigel. He has said a lot of things which i havent responded. It felt like a dead end to the conversation. I have a couple of responses in my written in my head but i dont blurt them out. I prefer to process them. So im an idiot. Lol. The question is, am i numb? Maybe to others, I am. Because my reactions (except anger- when something isnt logical or hurts my family members) are always flat affect or a strange laughter. This is one of my lifelong problems: i think too much it makes me non responsive or numb to others. I even consult simple things on how should i react if i couldnt find a solution myself. Because my conclusion most of the time are none. Lol. This ends to okay i really understand why i havent got a relationship. Because i am dead to reactions. Maybe im not really interested in romantic relationships. Even an experiment for the sake of studying it wont do. Like as some random guy to pretend to be a boyfriend just to see what goes  in a relationship starring me. It’s kind of desperate and pathetic and a bait for abusive or cunning man. But most people would see it as desperate not knowing my real motive- it’s weird to explain it in layman’s term. 

Anyways i feel my hyperacidity is attacking me so im gonna go get some rest. I promised myself not to overthink things. 

About my book, of course it’s about the meaning of life. And God’s existence. As a lover of logic and science it would be weird to write something like this. But that’s one of my goals. And my other story is like most of the stories. Its just how i view the world. An allegory in reaching anything you truly want. 

Testing the waters

So im writing again via phone. Another evidence that i couldn’t contain my current standing in the game of life lol. Sometimes i feel guilty for sharing my blog to someone i know because they might accuse me of being a weakling or being ungrateful. I dont give a fuck anyways. This is my trash bin and it’s obviously metaphorical. I couldn’t write via laptop because our computer is in the living room, it feels uncomfortable writing something even if they dont look at what i am doing. That’s another reason why i couldn’t continue my next episode. 

Im just here to tackle about actions and consequences. You enter a situation, and you are aware of what’s gonna happen. There’s a bonus: that’s when you dont expect something which will happen. I usually predict things as i enter a new setting. So it happened. Job wants me to conform. And i dont want to. Lol. I havent googled the exact meaning of conformity. But i think im on the right track lol. I know the solution: try to conform even if it clashes with your principles. I have written this before. I was just reminded again because i didnt conform to them. Lol. Now another solution is: play pretend. And find something that im gonna think about to shun away the real issue. That’s what i did. Or that’s what i always do. Don’t get me wrong. I am very good, at least in what i do, except the sales shit. Now im thinking what’s it like if im gonna be a parent. Maybe i’ll conform to them just to feed little mouths. A perfect excuse for someone who needed escape, and a perfect example of hard work and inspiration for real parents. 

Im not being smug here. Actually i feel bad for not having the kind of thinking most people have. Conforming to society, going with the flow, not thinking of harming others or violating one’s principles. 

So this post is an evidence that there’s an event in my life (actually the whole blog) that i might just laugh about someday. So the solution i have thought is to see a clairvoyant. My actual reason is to TEST his ability. I predict the future too. I am very curious about his talents. If ever he says something bad or i dont like, well or he might not show up due to a certain incident, or we wont show up because something happened. I cant help but imagine things: everything that could possibly happen- this, my friend, i believe, is a Ne- dominant trait. Lol. But it kinda excites me. It’s something i look forward to— some reason to at least bear the stress my work is causing me. 

I am also thinking that my dream job is still away. But not as far as from ten years ago. Still, a small progress is still a progress. The thing is, im going to unravel the mystery of the clairvoyant with Rigel. Who happened to be interested in knowing the future. That’s why im also anxious about what will happen. I think we’re the same. To be together in one place is inevitable. We do things for a purpose. I dont think this is an excuse just to be with his company. I think he became a medium on extracting what i needed to know to fight in my own game of life. I mean a medium could be anyone. But it happened to be him. No emotions involved. Just plain purpose. I told you i dont let emotions win. It’s just a bonus i happen to be with someone whom im comfortable with. But i still find it strange. But if being with him has a price, i wouldn’t thank him (i did) but i shouldve thanked his purpose. Same with me. I had a purpose seeing him. I needed data for my ultimate dream. Imagine what would happen in the future. If i reached my ultimate dream, maybe he’s married then with kids. I don’t know. Still testing the waters like watching his every move for me to dismiss what i have concluded in my past posts. 

Exciting isn’t it? We’ll see what happens. 

Boring reality

I was supposed to write something about my thoughts on marriage but i think i would leave that for now. I realized that i shouldn’t post often on facebook, since nobody really feels for me. I even avoided chatting on messenger unless it’s urgent.

I am about to finish the k drama Goblin which is the best i have watched so far. I don’t know. Even if i still don’t know the ending, i really can’t contain my feelings. Well at least i told my best friend about what i feel. I don’t know if i’m in love with the series lol but everything is just perfect. The whole story, the lines, the clothes they wear, the places where it was shot, i couldn’t find a single error. And the thing is, i am not really into drama. But i find myself crying in some episodes. To be honest i don’t know why. But i could relate to each character except Park Joong the effin demon ghost lol. They say that when you like something, it’s because you could relate to it. It might have happened to you that’s why it gets you. But not all cases of course. Well maybe because Goblin is really good you don’t need to relate yourself when you watch it. Lol. It’s just funny seeing Eun Tak having a handful of lighters to summon Kim Shin, well i have two lighters (originally three, my brother took one) because i thought i lost my lighter. Sadly i only summon the smoke of a cigarette when i feel like stressed and when i have rushing thoughts that i feel like chasing. I also remember the red scarf- my favourite one. It’s actually red and white but of course when i wear it i choose the red part. I remember the good old days in London. I remember the different seasons when i was abroad that’s why i enjoy watching Goblin. With regards to the story, it was well- written. Yes it’s full of torments but it’s nice. It’s a question of will and fate. Another interesting part of life.

I know these sorts of entertainment are man-made but the timing and the message could be the Deity’s will- or probably fate? I don’t know. Or it’s hard to explain. I myself write stories based on my ideas which has a hidden message on coping with reality. Of course it’s not set in reality but the core of the story is about the struggle of a human being in coping with it. It’s completely the same. So now im wondering when other people watch k dramas or a good movie, is it merely “it entertained me, i enjoyed it” feeling? Maybe some. But i like to look at the moral of the story. In everything. Even in a small incident, i like to connect it with the question what have i learned from it? Is it useful in the future? This neverending learning process goes on. And i don’t know if i could gather them and write it down in one book. Of course acting upon what u have learned is one evidence, even the slightest feeling of hope when you’re down is another evidence. But i want to collect them and maybe pass it on others by fate at least. By random.

I sometimes think that where would my stories go? I dont share it with most people because i know it’s boring to read something when you could watch lots of series online. That’s why i really want to make it a reality. Even if i end up doing it alone- i know it might take me a couple of decades since im a distracted person. And this distraction sometimes lead me to negative thinking. But believe me, im always positive. It feels like im immortal (another thing that i strangely relate to Kim shin-maybe because i have watched my loved ones evolve and lost some of them) lol. I always pray to God to guide me in the right path. When i say im distracted im serious about it. But these distractions —might have something to do in creating something. Something that would sync with the perfect timing.

This will sound strange but my timing is quite different from other people. I know we have different timings because we’re different lmao but what im saying is, like for my age and the likes most people have found their love and focus on building a family, as well as building their careers and all. That’s what i meant. Sometimes or i question myself often, did i really pass the time? Was it my fault? If i wasn’t distracted should have i been successful? Sometimes i forget that im mortal. Really. Man i think i watch too much afterlife shits lol. Or maybe i got to watch them to remind me that life is short so i must get going.

Now im hungry. Lolololololol. This is the boring and sad part of reality. That im very far from achieving my dreams because im broke and distracted. But im doing something about it. Im not the type of person to use someone like marry a rich man or trick people to earn money. I could do that but i choose not to. Because it’s against my values. I like everything done in a good way. That’s what i have learned in life. I hope i have said what i want. I still have lots of thoughts but my priority is sleep. Lol.

And practicing not talking about 75 percent of what’s on my mind or who’s on my mind. This too shall pass.

My most embarrassing feeling.

I was supposed to write something inspirational but i am emotionally fucked up. Lol. Since i don’t feel like talking to anyone today regarding what i feel, again im gonna leave my trash here. Lololololololol. So i have a couple of minutes to write and im hoping i could sleep before twelve midnight. 

So what happened? Nothing much. I left my phone at home but i brought my charger at work. Lol. I answered sudoku and read the newspaper dated yesterday. I looked at the atock market as if i had an investment lolololololol and answered a bit of the crossword puzzle. It wasn’t bad after all. 

I have also been watching Goblin, the korean drama series. But i guess it deserves another post. Maybe if i got it right, i mean my description of emotions towards the series. I could relate to the lead character and i dont know why. Maybe because he is living for almost a thousand years and i feel like Im 939 years old yet nothing has happened in my life lol. It’s not funny. Lololololololololol. 

Maybe im about to have my menstruation that’s why i feel alone and sad and angry with the people i know. The feeling that no one’s there for me when i needed someone to talk to 😂😂😂😂. I need to cut this crap because i look alright and it is not obvious that i need help. lol. Anyways why would you open up when they wont understand. I’ll just feel annoyed right? 

Okay and this one really affects me. Which one? Forgive me for my fucked up post. It just came to me while i was praying. I will try to enumerate them so i wont get confused. 
1. Rigel. He doesn’t like me. I mean it’s okay for him if he doesn’t see me. He doesn’t think about me. How did i know? I just know. I have got no time for self-pity or crappy insecurity feelings. But i quite understand the way how he feels or behaves. It’s logically correct. So i’m not mad at him or whatever. I value logic above all. I mean of course maybe second from faith. Lololololol. 

2. I feel so stupid for liking Rigel. 😂😂😂😂 it’s completely irrational. And you know when it’s not logical i tend to dismiss it. What’s the point? Lololololololol. I just hope my best friend wouldnt read this. She might laugh at me and tell me you have felt that so many times and it will soon pass. Well i agree.

3. I used to blame my future husband when things go wrong with my love life.  Lololololololol. It’s also illogical so i have dismissed it. Funny because whenever i  almost fall for someone i say to this non-existent being. It’s all your fault! Being non-existent is your sin that’s why im all fucked up. Lololololol. Stupid, isn’t it? 

4. I’m a coward. Wait, what? Yes. In terms of love. Why? Because love is an emotion. Sadly, i still couldn’t figure out this one. Even with friends. At least i admit it. I hate drama. Even if i do it occasionally in my blog posts, lmao! At least i dont bother someone. I just write them to feel better, right? But love, (as a feeling and not as a choice) is kind of complicated. Also the commitment thing. Because once you commited yourself to someone then it means you have to invest emotionally. You become possessive, etc. But im not joking when i say i could love someone from afar. (The unrequitted type lol) this one works better for me. But to others, being single and loving someone unconditionally is funny or dumb. And another thing i admit i sometimes feel embarrassed being single. Because to some it means no one is interested in me or something is wrong with me. No one bangs me, etc. Lolololololololololol. But that’s fine. They wouldnt understand why am i single.i have reasons and my reasons are not applicable to most people. 

So i would ask myself, what if Rigel is in his 30s, someone i met somewhere in college or in travel, and he likes me? Hell, no. If circumstances have changed it means that he might have been married to someone, or i might not notice him. Why? I dont know either. Lol. I am not very good  in explaining things especially when im in a crappy mood. I never wished Anything about him to change. And Rigel’s an evidence that God is really powerful and accurate in his timing. If we were born on the same year we wouldn’t meet. 
The bottomline of this rambling is he doesn’t like me. Or he likes me as a person like i like random people who are never involved in my personal life. Im writing these things so that someday ill just laugh about them. 😂😂😂😂. And it’s 12:23. 

And because what i felt during the times we were together are just one-sided. And the next sentence would be the most embarrassing words i would ever write. It’s so stupid i felt i want to spend the rest of my life with this person. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. See? I have never felt this with my past loves/ friends/ crushes. Even with my former crush. My totga. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Funny, isnt it? That’s why i wrote it. Because i want to prove that i was wrong.. or will be wrong soon. 
I just let my emotions drown me a bit every day i think of the day that he leaves. Whahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah! He doesn’t even know i like him. Because i would never ever admit or show it or give hints. Because it’s pointless. 

Dont get me wrong! I am not in love with him. And if i were, im just waiting for it to fade. And if it doesn’t fade, well i dont know. I might write a novel about it. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Something

Again. Sorry for the wrong grammar. Lol. While i was typing the title of this blog i noticed that i shook my head. (Or is it was shaking my head) okay i already apologized for the grammatical errors of this post so please do continue and dont give a fuck. Lol. The reason i shook my head because this happened before. Many times. I couldn’t sleep because something’s bugging me. In my previous blogs i blamed it on caffeine. And yes, i had plenty of caffeine today. Lol. And i was supposed to edit my resume. I did edit my resume. I tried to put some art and then noticed the time 11:oo pm so i decided to sleep. Lol. Before that i had a battle. (Positivity versus negativity) in my mind. Lol. The funny thing is positivity won, so i didnt bother to edit my resume. (Tomorrow is a new day! Hurrah!) lol. But because i had caffeine overload i couldn’t sleep. If i had edited my resume it shouldve been ready for printing tomorrow. Lol. What a rubbish post. Hahahahahahaha! I dont know. If people like me. Will succeed. Hahahahaha. Crap! But if you will think about it, for example, you have a big exam on a certain subject, you didnt review because you didnt feel like doing it. And the next day your professor’s sick. So, no exam. Lol. I am not rationalizing my laziness. I think it’s just funny. Maybe ill get by with this attitude but no distinction in terms of success.  I am not against hard work. In fact i am surprised that i involuntarily worked hard in some phases of my life. (Whatever you call it! ) well i think this post is pointless for some. But meaningful for me. Meaningful because this is my outlet. After this post i will be fine and soon be in good working condition. I guess in life there’s plenty of stress. Stress that leads to overthinking then paranoia. If i were an HR i would never hire the author of this blog. Hahahahhahahaha! Because it seems that the writer is unfit for the job! How come there were employees that i know who passed the exam,etc but were unfit for the job? Dumb HR. I guess. Lol. Or palakasan. Oh dear. I think i shouldnt be too harsh on myself but sometimes i do this or a lot because i am fucking procrastinating all the time! Hahahahaha! I dont always work hard but when i do, i work til i lose my senses. Nice nice! Have you ever had enough time you had taken all the personality tests on google search’s pages 1-3 and still remember the questions? Yes! Lol. Name all the mbti/jung typology websites. Been taking them since i learned how to use the internet. Result? Intp. Always. They say that einstein’s an INTP. He’s my idol. And the only similarity that we have is we dont know/ want to drive. Lol. I havent tried it though. Anyways let me define my personal mbti result. Intp. Introspective Negative Thinking(over)Paranoid. Hahahahahahahahahahahaha! Perfect! Mind you, this is only an outlet. I call this therapy. Writing clears my mind. When the world has taken its toll on me(at least in my imagination) i write. At least i do not whine about love life! At this moment i remembered my crush. I call him mr sunshine! Because there are plenty of stars in the universe. Bigger, brighter, bolder, yet the sun is the only star that shines over the earth. Giving life! Wow! But he shouldnt be mr sunshine. Because the sun is in the perfect position. So it means he will never be mine lol. Or im not the earth. Im pluto. Hahahahahaha. I think im talking like crazy. I just remembered his face and i suddenly talked about the solar system. Well even i dont earn money from writing, i still consider myself as a writer. A writer is someone who creates something awful into something beautiful. Wait, isnt it called recycling? Lol. No thats garbage to something useful. But theyre kinda similar. And a writer exaggerates things. Like for example you read ” the sheets that hugged them produced heat… Sorry it sounds like sciencey. Lol. What i mean is authors can make sex like an art or something beautiful but the actual physical thing is it’s not. Its more of a funny and a little disgusting kind of thing. Hahahahaha! Well because writers focus on the beauty/ feeling rather than the bad things or unnecessary things. Okay enough of this shit. So it’s 1:20 am and how am i supposed to get up early and edit my resume? Lol. We’ll see! Hahahahaha