The law of distraction.

This is the second part of the diary of a undiagnosed ADHD

There is so many things running in my head since morning and I felt that strange bolt of energy within. In most cases I compare the energy with lust. The lust for doing something which involves creativity such as writing, drawing or anything that has to do with art.

This is a quick post though, because I committed a videocall with friends at 3 pm. And i’ve got to wash my dog and give him medications too. I also have to take a bath after bathing my dog. And i have to do these in less than an hour. SOUNDS GREAT isn’t it?

I remembered that I work best under pressure. The mild form of anxiety gives me focus on what I do. And contrary to the title, these distractions would be very helpful in finishing my tasks. I already talked to a shrink regarding my mental health issues. And found out that I dont have any forms of depression nor bipolar disorder. I also submitted a copy of my Asrs test. Whatever you call it.

This morning i applied for a job, followed up my last pay in my previous work and helped a little in preparing our lunch. So i didnt review for my test today. Because my key words are money and job.

My shrink also adviced me to write down what I want to do. And think about it because I tend to do things with impulse. So it’s 2:26 and I had to pause writing. I purposely delay finishing my blog post because I want to write clearly about what I want to talk about.

2:56 P.M. I am not used to documenting what I do in details but because it has a purpose, it wouldn’t hurt that much lol. I have read an article on totally add and got into the hype. As well as my shrink said, i dont have to conform to what other people do when they review. I like games. Especially videogames. So why not turn something boring into something fun. More of like challenging yourself in doing a simple task. Of course there are distractions ahead and the challenge is do not let the distractions distract you. While i was bathing my pet, since i had to leave the medicated shampoo for ten minutes and got the chance to buy some cigarettes and a chocolate biscuit I kinda missed eating. The rule is, if ten minutes doing nothings bores you, then you can do something else by minding the time.

I am not usually like this. But i was just motivated because of the strange energy bolt i am feeling. I tend to delay things especially when it’s important. But right now I am just rewiring my brain by doing something just like when I am playing videogames. AND the relief that I am normal helped too. I am just taking advantage of the energy I have got.

Most tasks for me are quite boring. So the key is to make things interesting. Whether shallow or deep. Like having a job, is kinda boring for me. So what I think about is another keyword. LAPTOP. having a laptop is having power. Power to get another job, and with the right specs I could start doing what I love or what I might love in the long run. If i get a job then I could buy a laptop. And install games or theme maker– taking advantage of technology with a high speed internet lol. How I wish today was like everyday!

I would also like to focus on writing clearly. It takes time but by practising a lot who knows I might write soon a straight to the point article or post. Lol.

Another tip to myself is challenging myself with another game. This sounds creepy but I like to pretend that I will die in 5 years and I have to be rich before I die. lol. I act with impulse So I added a little pressure. (Because i didnt say i will die tomorrow lol). Of course theres this system in my head (sorry I havent written it down. But I am relying with keywords which I recite to remember.

To earn money is first to have a job. And I also had to test myself by applying what I have read in an online class about money management. It’s tough though. But I am in a roleplaying game. I pretend that I want to become rich. And since I love playing games I am in! LOL. sounds crazy but it is more appealing than the reality that I am close to midlife crisis and still havent got a property lol.

We have different strategies in approaching life’s struggles so I am not saying my strategies will apply to all, maybe for some as silly as me. If it doesn’t work then Ill have to find another strategy– which I consider another game. Of course I have to reward myself for the good outcome. And in order to to that I have tl remind myself of the key word: job. lol

P.s. my videocall conference has been moved to 4:30. So i have plenty of time to prepare! And i even finished a post! So congratulations to me!

And the title says distraction. Well life is full of distractions. I admit i forgot something I wish to mention. Because as I write I am kind of distracted myself. But this distraction is also a form of review. Remember that distractions are related to functions, you just have to keep your mind open and continue your exploration. I dont know who said that. Maybe it was me! 😆

Do what you love. ( a message to all the struggling artists on earth)

I haven’t written something for a few months. Lol. I shared my blog to someone i look up to and  i don’t know what’s his true reaction to my posts. Nevermind. I’ve been struggling lately in this so-called earth. Nope, it’s not poverty like most people struggle about. I am just writing to update this blog regarding my search for a purpose. The physical purpose. Lol. As a Christian, you don’t have to find a purpose. Be good, do good because God is watching you and has a hard copy of everything you’ve done since birth. Lmao. 

I just noticed that ideas come to me when i go to church. It’s not that im not listening to the sermon. I dunno. I sometimes think it’s the devils distraction or an angel guiding me on what to do with my life. I realized that we’re all gonna die, and somehow leave something meaningful to the next generation so they might not go astray. Who knows in the next twenty years there will be a new hype, where gamers battle in real life. I really want to create a game, that’s why i immersed myself in playing mobile legends. I was wondering who made the characters and if they get a commission based on the popularity of a character. Well i never stopped writing on my loser anime-type novel. Loser because it’s not popular. Lol but that’s fine. It makes me happy to read it. I was just thinking about the movie Idiocracy, the only movie i would like to recommend to someone who would ask me what to watch. It’s a bit exaggerated of course.. but it makes sense. Im not very good with words, but i dedicate this post to all the starving artists all over the world. I just hope my message would all be clear. 

You can google the movie synopsis if you haven’t watched it. When my sister and i had a fight because of a neighbor’s wake, she told me i live in a dream world that’s why she would nevwr understand me. And vice versa. I wasn’t mad. It’s true thy i live in my own world. I am physically present because i cannot disappear physically, but mentally i am pondering things. But of course i usually do my observation on people, mostly Clevon’s decendants. If you would read the bible it says that the world will become more cruel as the days come. To connect it with the movie, it could be true. Because those who multiply are stupid. This sounds rude, right. But come to think of it, im not saying everyone on this planet who become parents are stupid. Just take a good look around, my friend. And those who are intelligent as well as overthinkers spend too much time on doing something rather than sex. Or simply overthinks that the world is cruel and i don’t want my future generation to suffer. We haven’t fixed simple real-life problems because of greed. It would cause a debate because labelling the future generation as products of stupidity combats the will of God (god gave us life). But God gave us free will and the free will of stupid people is justified. Lol. 

Anyways i think i lost track of what i wanted to talk about. People are driven by love. Whether atupid or intelligent. Love makes the world bearable. That’s what i think. Sadly i haven’t experienced that kind of love. Because for me it’s ideas. For an artist who is doing something whether it’s a song, a comic book, (RIP Stan Lee), a novel, etc.. it’s kind of difficult for them not selling. No recognition. I think my grammar is busted lol. What im trying to say is, technology could be an edge today because it’s easier to publish your works. And because of technology it’s also easier for hunters to steal them. And what’s worse is you compete with artist wannabes who uses popularity but are stupid down to the core. They win because as i have said before, clevon’s decendants make up the earth, and stupid works are enjoyed by stupid audiences. Lol. A real masterpiece is liked by both intelligent and stupid being. I admit that im rude. Correct me if im wrong. It’s fine with me. But i think artists should not crave for recognition or whatsoever. Just don’t stop doing what you love. The right people would appreciate what you do. And based on my experience i am quite happy with two readers. I just want to make it big not to earn money. (I didnt graduate for nothing) but to share the hidden message (not everyone will get it) to most people. I think im good and hardworking in this set up so i want to see the results.  As a matter of fact this also makes me feel not normal because most people settle down, have kids etc. I made a deal with the universe by the way. But it’s top secret lol. If falling in love would stop me from writing these stories, then i would never love at all. (Two of my friends who used to write stories have stopped. They’re married now) well on the practical side of life, it could be called a sign of maturity. It’s just a phase unobserved and rather irrelevant to the future of the subject that’s why they stopped doing it. If that’s the case, am i still writing because i’m a weirdo, loveless creature? Lmao. It’s my world. My universe. I hated the world that’s why i created my own. Sometimes i wish i could find something good in the norm. I do. But it’s not enough. I admit im still lost in doing tangible things and too bad they’re connected in chasing my dreams. But i will never give up. I’m testing time if my passion fades. And i never stopped thinking about sharing messages. I already have a plan about my projects. But i already expected a few to understand. But of course consistency is hoghly facoured by the universe. Lol. Me, consistent? I dont know. 

And about the guy i was talking about in the past  posts, well let me tell you my favourite quote, a universal quote: 

“I believe that the existence of the classical “path” can be pregnantly formulated as follows: The “path” comes into existence only when we observe it.” -werner heisenberg (uncertainty principle paper) 

Just like what Heisenberg did, he shared something to the world and kudos to him i found this quote. It’s about physics, but let me tell you that everything is connected. So i use it in the love department. I have stopped observing the path that connects me to this person. I ignored everything. Even my feelings so it’s considered as non-existent. I might sound crazy but it’s just the same as those artists who never paid attention to their talents, who never practiced their gifts, who never believed in their abilities. It’s a choice, after all. But to those who were mocked by other people to stop doing what they love, never listen to them. If you are not happy with the world, do something to make it happier. At least for yourself. 

Everything happens for a reason

Hello! I was supposed to write on my project today but i procrastinated lol. That’s fine because i still remember my idea— after church i got this idea of a new story. Something related to Rigel. Lol. This idea came up suddenly because i liked Rigel so much, i might be able to preserve the good times we had with a twist. You know nobody knows what’s gonna happen in the future— so if id written a story about us we could have a happy ending. At least in one of my stories. Sad, isnt it? Just like Annie Hall. I love that movie. But i still couldnt find the perfect introduction or first episode. My ideas are all scattered in my brain’s dimension. 

I went back to his empire yesterday. Of course i had reasons. When i was at home i thought my feelings were gone because i wasnt excited to go there. I went to his empire around five pm. And i played with the kids. I really had a good time with them. Being with the kids taught me something about myself. That im learning to be sociable? Lol. I dont know. I never let anyone invade my personal space— i used to hate kids. I hate a lot of people. I avoid people. But these kids changed me. Last month gave me the hint that hey, i could be a generous aunt. I loved them and thought about giving them gifts on Christmas. Well i never really give gifts on Christmas except for my family. Or compulsary gift giving. But during my days abroad even if my roommates gave me gifts i never reciprocated them. Lol. Because im one stingy old hag hahahahahahahaha. Anyways these kids made me realize that i have a heart. Lmao. And really my best friend’s family feels like my own. And yesterday was perfect. I also realized that my interests— well im also a kid at heart lol. Ive had plenty of experiences especially with all kinds of people. I have mingled with them to observe and validate my life long study about human behavior- to fully understand relationships. Because i admit that im not very good in dealing with people. I have my own world and it’s unusual if i enjoyed something outside it. I used to loathe reality. Because i never understood it. I am more focused in spirit, i also read and study a lot about life and its essence because frankly worldly acts dont appeal to me. Ive tried them but i just dont see its value. To me it’s pointless.

 I have viewed reality as a sickening place. People getting worse in creating more chaos. It all starts in one family. Because no parent is perfect and the passing of the usual norms and traditions (not all kinds of course) create impact on the younger people. And it’s up to one person how to act upon it. We have our own paths to take and based on  judgement or perception you create your character or defense mechanisms through life. As the title says everything happens for a reason- people who understood and learn from all kinds of pain would survive and pass it on the next generation. But again the chaos of reality is inevitable because not all people will fully understand its meaning. And as a man of reason, even though logic has a high chance of solving problems, we must not forget that we are not computers- we are all human and the greatest thing God has taught us is to love. 

I was supposed to be talking about Rigel lol but nah i just want to write down everything i can think of. I know i couldnt pass writing on ielts if i write like this lol. But my conclusion after these scattered thoughts i can do this! I can write my conclusion down: here it goes. The simple time i have spent with the kids is a fresh splash of reality: A good reminder that reality isn’t bad at all. It made me stronger and inspired me that my world shouldnt revolve around my fantasies. ( i have two kinds of fantasies- one that i know would never happen and the other one: theres something i could do about it lol) 

AND THIS KIND OF REALITY MADE A PORTAL MY OTHER KIND OF FANTASY. I cant believe theyre connected lol. It’s hard to explain it but i think i am on the right track. 

So God let me and Rigel communicate to remind me to pursue my dreams. And to enjoy life at the same time. 

The not so good part of this post is, okay i am trying to control my greatest skill, overthinking lol. Sis and mum have warned me not to do it in every situation. But for me i dont call it overthinking. It’s more of a preparation of reactions and feelings over a set of possibilities 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Okay overthinking isnt good actually. Because Rigel is leaving soon. Imagining him leaving everyday makes me sad but it’s one of my techniques to let out pieces of emotion so by the actual time he leaves i have ran out of feelings 😂😂😂😂😂😂. It’s kind of weird if WOUld still feel sad on the day he’d leave, because it’s for the better. I never cried when i parted ways with friends because i know they would be in a better place ( no, im not talking about heaven lololololololol) i meant better opportunities so im happy for them. But as for rigel i feel sad regarding the potential time. Because i think he’s the one i rarely one to spend my time with— other than family or close friends. Shit! I will surely miss him. What the fuck is this? Lol. Maybe because he’s into technology and he fuels my desire to pursue my goals. But man i admit i am quite confused. I have plenty of reasons why i like him. 
I dont wanna state all the details being with him because i wasnt focused on him when i was there. I just couldnt bear the thought- wait. I think i could manage without him. Lol. I have reasons why. But i admit life is better when i spend time with him. 

So much for this. I need to sleep. Lol

The dao of clash of clans

Hello! First of all, i didn’t bother touching my laptop today meaning i didn’t edit my resume. Hahahahahaha! I woke up around ten am. Lololololololol. So there. I hate sleeping late but i just can’t sleep! Because i need to collect 6 million elixir to upgrade my giant. Hahahaha! I know coc is not that popular anymore. Because of clash royale. I dunno, im not addicted to coc anymore. It’s just that i’m close to getting that 6m elixir. I used to be a coc addict. But the fact i managed to have time for it even if i was super busy — it’s called love. Hahahahaha! When coc was very popular ive read strange news about it. Kesho it’s a game made by the illuminati and had symbols of the devil etc. It destroys relationships, (well that’s quite true) becuse its addictive. / addicting? Lol. But for me i have learned a lot from coc. Coc is like life. It’s difficult to sustain it if you dont have enough money. Lolololololol. I never used money just to upgrade quickly. So when playing coc you have to be patient. Of course there are short cuts when u want to upgrade quickly but u need to use gems or other app cheats. But i must say that i am proud of where i am now at coc lol. See? Its like life! You need to take things slowly. Especially when u have no money. Lol. Am i making sense. I dont think so. Hahahahahaha! In every town hall level you become stronger because you get the chance to upgrade your troops. Just like getting credentials to find your perfect opponent– a job! Hahahaha! You also need to be cool and cooperate with other people or your clan in order to win wars. Just like in real life. I dont know why other people dont understand the beauty of video games. (Btw this is playable only on phones and pc) but its still a game. I dont know if im the only one who thinks you can learn from coc. Maybe because im nuts. Defending my time wasting schemes looting instead of applying for jobs. Lol. Anyways, back to my fave topic, myself lol. I have created so many online accounts with different identities. Because i dont want to be found. Lol. I realized that my characters are faceless. Different from each other. And like my passwords, they depend on my current mood. Ive got a lot of things to do! But i often forget them! And one of my projects– i only remembered it now! I think i should focus on that. Well anyway, i dont think i could make money out of writing. Because of my fluctuating mood! I used to dream about creating a novel like the fountainhead. Then a powerful love story, or defeating eckhart tolle’s the power of now. ( i call it the power of later) lol. Im a fan of procrastination. Well i still write on my children stories 😂😂 pathetic. Yet i dont give a fuck because i laugh a lot when i read them. Just like my blogs. Lol. Well someday i’d like to see them on videogame or on tv. Well that would be up to me. I dont know if i could make them popular. I just want to see them move. And mind you, there’s no short cut to success. Just like in coc, it took me one yr to get to th9. So maybe ten or 20 years wont hurt. Whats important is, you dont stop working on it. And you dont notice the time. Bcause you are happy when u do it.

Holy Week (when the demons’ powers are strongly elavated)

Hiya! Just updating this blog to let you know that I’m still alive. Lol. I kinda have mixed emotions. I used to fear holy week when i was a student. Because i could feel the power of the underworld dominating–inside my mind. Well i have found the remedies to it, actually: just work on holidays. But since im a student again, i am looking forward to an epic battle between me and the devil. Lolololololol. Buuuut, i have my powers now. Physical powers to describe them. Gadgets: phone, nintendo, ps vita, laptop to combat the emptiness and the boredom where the devil likes to lurk. Hahahahahahaha. I dont wanna state all my plans regarding studying because i failed two or more of my IT subjects. Im taking it easy. I dont have plans stressing myself.

 

And i was quite flattered when i checked my notifications: random strangers liked my posts. Lol. Maybe because they could relate or simply they were bored and laughed a little at my silly posts. Anyways, thanks people. The last time i wrote was about the guy i sort of like. Yeah. Bad news is i still like him. In fact he’s my ideal man. Lol. Sometimes i wonder if it ever occured to him. That some weirdo, talentless underachiever who laughs like its doomsday has a crush on him. 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Hahahahaha. I feel funny. You know im not a teen ager anymore. But to quote from my old blog “it feels like i have won the lottery somehere outside the universe” when he talks to me. Crap. I am just enjoying the feeling. I feel happy and embarrassed at the same time while i am typing these words. Lolololololol. Too bad i haven’t heard a word from him. He’s also not a facebook person so i have no idea where he is or what he’s doing. Lol. Maybe chilling with his family. Im not sure if he’s a catholic. Probably because he came from a catholic school. Lol. Anyways,  i have this strange feeling again that something’s gonna happen. Something nice to be exact. Im not expecting anything from my ideal man. Maybe i’ll just finish episode 37 and it would be epic. Epic-sode! Lol i kinda missed writing. I like my story because it relates to me. All of the characters actually relate to me. To describe the first three characters or protagonists: the first one is highly determined because it’s his dream to become an sw. Go figure out what’s an sw. Lol. But he lacks skills and is very behind in his studies. I just realized (though i have written the concept first before i enrolled at uni lol) that were very similar. That’s why i enrolled at this uni to become GD which is my ultimate dream. Hahahahaha! The next character is someone who has talents and abilities but is to lazy to give effort so he doesnt take his course seriously. He’s busy on ther things such as escaping. Hahaha. I relate to his laziness and tactics but i think he’s more talented than me. Lol. The third character is highly motivated because she thinks she will find love at school. Its just soooo me. Motivated to come to school early because of ideal man. 😂😂😂. OMG. Lol. Well for both parties, i think i have more control over my story than my life. Hahahahaha. Or if coincidentally whatever i write on my story will eventually happen in real life, wellthanks man! Hahahaha! I miss IM soooo bad i even pray for him to come into my dreams! Hahahahah! How can he be so blind! I think we could build a strong empire together!!!!! Hahahahaha! Im waiting for my feelings to fade. Because there are certain factors that are pi. Constant i mean. There’s status, well status isnt constant. Okay. Age. Buwahahahahahaha! But i think he’s kainda mature and we have the same likes? And his words— i couldnt believe the sweetest sentence i have ever heard– came from him. My greatest motivations or words of wisdom before i met him well, came from me.. Then from dad then from my bestest best friend. But now, he had no idea he said the words (whether he means it or not) which fueled the flame in my heart enough for me to fight for a lifetime. NAKS! Giataaaaay! I have close friends at school. But they never said that to me. Lol.  Anyways because im motivated today i think i will finish episode 37. And i have to thank my ideal man for that. Thank him for reminding me that im on the right track.